Erotische dating via skype
We were planning to meet, but before it happened, one day during our Skype conversation, he started to say things that stirred up our emotions. He said this was natural, but later because I could not go on, we prayed together and asked forgiveness from God and each other. By the way, he stopped contacting me after a while. Dear Reader, I'm shocked and saddened by your letter, but I'm not surprised. I'm grieved by your sin because it separates you from God.I'm saddened by the reminder that our enemy has made sexual sin so cut-off from relationship that we're not even sure it is sex.The victims typically receive a call from an unknown woman via Skype, who invites them to have some fun of a personal nature.A few days later the victim receives another call from the woman who demands money from him, threatening to publish the sex video on the Internet if he doesn’t pay up.He says of them, "Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? [these categories of sinners] will not inherit the kingdom of God." But he doesn't end there.With great relief we read, "And such were some of you." What changed to turn these sinners who would have no part in God's kingdom into members of the early church?And I'm emboldened to answer because the convenience of the internet and the prevalence of online dating coupled with the ubiquity of high-speed Internet convinces me that you're not the only one doing this.First a few observations: You describe the man you met online as wonderful and godly.
You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. (That's not to say any and every form of sexual expression, as long as it happens within marriage, is sanctioned by God. But that's a whole other topic for another day.) Your question — "is it sex?
Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute? Or do you not know that he who is joined to a prostitute becomes one body with her?
For, as it is written, 'The two will become one flesh.' But he who is joined to the Lord becomes one spirit with him. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
For the Scripture says, 'Everyone who believes in him will not be put to shame.' For there is no distinction between Jew and Greek; for the same Lord is Lord of all, bestowing his riches on all who call on him.
For 'everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.' This is the day of repentance.